However, using the potty is complex for
small children, so mom and dad shouldn’t panic if
baby doesn’t potty train right away. The
best way to approach potty training is to take
it one step at a time and to be patient.
The first step is to get both you and your toddler ready.
Observe little one for the “about to go” signals
such as squatting, retreating to a quiet area or verbalization.
Other signals that show a parent a toddler is ready are:
verbal communication of things like hunger, child understands
simple sentences, doesn’t like being soiled, stays
dry longer. One way you can help your baby from birth for
this time is to change all dirty diapers quickly. This way,
they never have a chance to be used to the soiled feeling.
Once your sure your toddler is ready, prepare yourself by
getting the proper equipment. This includes but is not limited
to: potty training chair, training pants, training
diapers, other potty training aids. You must also
prepare to be patient…don’t expect miracles
overnight.
Once you’re both ready, start by teaching the essentials.
First, teach them where to go. A good way to get your toddler
involved is to let him or her pick their own potty chair.
This ensures that they will be comfortable with potty
training on the chair. Next, you want to make sure
you’re teaching the correct vocabulary. It’s
best to use words like “penis” and “vagina”
to prevent confusion in later life. However, it’s
okay to use words like “pee-pee” and “poo-poo”
rather than “urination” and “defecation”.
The main challenge consists of teaching them the connection
between feeling the urge and going and after going, telling
mommy or daddy. You could do this by waiting for them to
show the telltale signs of eliminating and taking them straight
to the potty training chair. TV’s “Dr. Phil”
suggests illustrating with a doll that uses the bathroom.
Having this visual aid can help a great deal. Once they
begin to make progress, move them from diapers to training
pants. Above all, be patient and relax. Some day you’ll
look back on this time and miss it.
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